Zvinotaridzika kuti munguva yedu, matambudziko ehutano hwepabonde ari mumachechi evanhukadzi, vanhu vakaroorana, uye kune vanhu vanozviratidzira nevanhurume vanoita zvepabonde zvose zvinonzwiwa uye zvakadzidzwa nevanosayendisiti pamwe chete. Asi pane chimwezve chiitiko chisingazivikanwi chekuzviratidza kwechido chepabonde, kana kuti, kupererwa kwayo kwe "hukama hwezvepabonde". Tisati taenderera mberi tichienda kumubvunzo wemubvunzo wehutachiona, zvakakosha kuzarura chinangwa cheiyo pfungwa. Kuita zvepabonde ndekushayikwa kwepabonde mune vamwe vanhu vakuru. Masayendisiti anobva kuUnited States vave vachidzidza izvi zvinoshamisa kubvira kuma1950. Nhasi inozivikanwa kuti vagari venyika asiye havana kukanganisa mukubudirira kwavo mumuviri, ivo chete havafariri zvepabonde.
Asexuality test
Kana iwe uine kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pezvaunofarira zvepabonde kana wako wega, iwe ucharatidza neka-test-test ye8 mibvunzo yakajeka, kupindura kwauchazogona kuziva kana iwe uchifanirwa kuzvisungira iwe kana mudiwa wako mune zvepabonde. Mibvunzo inotevera inofanira kupindurwa kuti "hongu" kana "kwete", "haambofi".
- Kune zvepabonde kwauri kune rumwe rudzi rwe "tsvina" here?
- Iwe unoda, nguva nenguva, kugutsikana kwepabonde pane zvaunoda?
- Iwe unofunga kuti hukama hwakakwana huri pakati pevadzidzi hunobvira chete kana kune ukama hwepedyo pakati pavo?
- Wakamboona here, apo pakanga pasina chido chekuziva mumwe wako, kuwirirana pamwe chete?
- Ko kusakwana kwakakwana kwehupenyu hwepedyo kunopesanisa iwe here?
- Kuita zvepabonde, ichi chinhu chakakosha uye chinonyanya kukosha cheukama "hwakarurama" pakati pevadzidzi?
- Iwe unowanzova nechinangwa chikuru kune munhu anokunzwira tsitsi here?
- Pane here kusanzwisiswa mumagariro epanyama uye epfungwa nekuda kwekushaya kwepabonde kwenguva yakareba?
Kana kumibvunzo yose 2 kusvika ku8, mhinduro yako yaive "kwete" kana "kwete", saka iwe unofanira kufungisisa pamusoro peizvi zvakakonzera mamiriro ezvinhu aya. Mhinduro kumubvunzo nhamba 1 inogona kuratidza kuti kurera kwako kwehupenyu hwepabonde kwakakonzerwa nekurerwa sei. Kana mhinduro yako kwairi "Hongu" saka inowanzoita kuti vagari vese vanogona kunge vari pamwe chete nehupfungwa hwepfungwa kune hutano hwepabonde hwakamuka pamusana pe "Soviet upbringing."
Asexuality - zvinokonzera uye kurapa
Sezvo zvatozivikanwa, asexuals vanhu vanongorega nemaune kuramba kuita zvepabonde, asiwo havakwanisi kunakirwa zvepabonde. Vanoona zvepabonde vanoramba kutarisa huwandu hwemamiriro ehurumende, zvisinei nekuti chiitiko chacho chinogona kukonzerwa nematambudziko chaiwo epfungwa. Musikana anokwanisa kuva nhengo yevanhu vanobva kune dzimwe nyika mushure mekubata chibharo kana kunorwadza nekusava nemhandara. Munhu anogona kutendeuka kuva anxxual mushure mekutanga kwekunge avhiringidzika mune zvepabonde.
Kubva pakuonekwa kwepanyama, zvepabonde ndeyekusikwa kwechimiro chemuviri wechipfuva, uye kusavapo kwaro kwemazuva akawanda kunotungamirira kumagadzirirwo akaoma, izvo zvinokanganisa zvakanyanya utano hwevakadzi.
Kubva pakufunga kwepfungwa, kusava nekugutsikana kwepabonde uye, semugumisiro, kusunungurwa kwehomoni yehufaro muropa, kunotungamirira kuchinjairo mumamiriro ehutachiona. Icho chiri mune izvi, kuti madzimai ane kusara kwenguva refu kwemajasita anotya uye kuchena.
Kurapa kwechirwere ichi zvakananga kunobva pasinei nokuti inxual pachayo inosangana nehupi husinganzwisisiki inobatanidzwa nemaonero ayo pamusoro pepabonde. Kana pasina matambudziko anomuka uye hupenyu hwako hwakazadzwa uye husina zvepabonde, ipapo chiremba haafaniri kutaurirwa zvachose. Muchiitiko chekuti haunzwisisike kuva mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, asi iwe haugone kukurira mafungiro ako, unofanirwa kutendeukira kumudzidzi wepfungwa kana wehupombwe.