Ukama hwakakomba nemurume, huchibatanidzwa nekusikwa kwemhuri yakasimba - haisi kuti mudzimai wese anotota pamusoro? Ukama hunobva pane kuvimba, rudo, kugamuchirwa, ushamwari uye manzwiro e "shure" shure kwavo ibasa rimwe nerimwe zuva nezuva kumativi ose maviri.
Chii chinonzi "ukama hwepedyo" zvinorevei?
Ukama hwakakomba - ichi chii? Pane imwe nzira iyo munhu anganzwisisa kuti hukama huri kukura hune hunokosha uye hune chinangwa? Hungu, zviyero zvakadai kana zviratidzo ndezvi:
- manzwiro akadzika kune mumwe nemumwe, chirevo cherudo;
- maonero akafanana neavo vanobatana navo mune ramangwana, kuronga, mukukurukurirana kazhinji tinonzwa "isu", pane "Ini";
- chido chekuumba mhuri yakasimba, kutaura nezvevana;
- Vashandidzani vakanyatsotarisana uye havasi kutsvaga "spare" zvisarudzo.
Nzira yekuwana sei murume weukama hwakakomba?
Ndekupi kunosangana nemunhu kune ukama hukuru? Uyu mubvunzo unogona kunzwika kubva kuvakadzi, vaneta neusurukirwa, "vakapiswa" pane hukama hwekare uye kune avo vanotya kuzivana nevanhu zvachose. Hapana mhinduro isinganzwisisiki kumubvunzo uyu, zvakawanda zvinoenderana nezvinodiwa nemukadzi, izvo zvaanotungamirirwa. Kune mumwe munhu zvakakosha kutaura kuti "mugumo uchawana pachitofu" - vanogara uye vanomirira, uye mumwe munhu anotora zvigaro zvavo mumaoko avo uye anoenda kune zviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana, achitarisira kusangana iyeye chete.
Nyaya imwe neimwe yakasiyana. Asi pfungwa inokosha pano ichave pfungwa yakachena yemukadzi pamusoro pokuti angafanirwa kuva sei, murume wake nokuda kweukama hwakasimba? Kufunga kuti ukama hwakasimba hwehupenyu kwenguva refu ndehwekutsvaga munhu zvakanyanyisa. Vasikana, vakadzi vanoda ukama hwakadaro, vanofanira kunyatsomiririra kuti vanogona kupa vakasarudzwa kuti chii chavanozopiwa. Esotericists vanodavira kuti kunzwisisa uku kunokwezva munhu akanaka.
Uye zvakadaro, paunogona kusangana nomunhu akanaka nokuda kweukama hwakakomba:
- Hazvina mhosva kuti inonzwika sei, ingava nguva yekutarisa-svetuka, dzimwe nguva izvo zvaunoda ndezvokureba (kugara mumba imwe, mukova, mumugwagwa uri pedyo uye kumumirira kuti aonekwe);
- Kana iri iri musha muduku (musha, taundi), umo munhu asingafaniri kumirira kubva "mugungwa remamiriro okunze", sarudzo imwe - kushandura nzvimbo yekugara, zvakaoma uye zvinokuvadza, asi kana ukama hwakanaka hwehukama huri mberi, njodzi inonzwisisika.
- Nzvimbo dzepaIndaneti, Indaneti - pane maonero akashandiswa paInternet chete nezvekuvaraidza, uye ukama hwakakomba ndiwo hutano hwemisangano munzvimbo chaiye. Asi hazvisi zvinhu zvose zvakasuruvarisa sezvinoita, uye mukana wekuzivana nemunhu akakodzera pane chikwata chaicho hachina tariro, izvi ndechokuti basa revanhu vakawanda rakanyanya kwazvo, uye Indaneti inzvimbo yakachengeteka yekuzivana: hapana anokurumidzira, nechishuvo chemhepo vanogona kugara vakagadzirira musangano unozoisa "i", vanhu vari kusvika kune mumwe kana kwete.
- Mukadzi anowanzotora mufananidzo wehupenyu hwake hwemangwana chii. Vamwe vane mitambo, vhidhiyo, nyanzvi, vamwe vane Nobel laureate, scientists. Pano pane zano rimwe chete rekuve mumamiriro ezvinhu apo varume vakadaro "vanogara": misangano, zviratidzo, mitambo yemitambo, makonti.
Kufambidzana basa nokuda kweukama hwakakomba
"Kufambidzana nehukama hwakakomba uye kuroorana" - nhasi zviziviso zvakadai hazvisi zvisiri zvisizvo, masangano embadhi kana kuti nhengo dzekufambidzana, dzinoda zvikuru pakati pevanhu. Vashandi vanofananidza vane vane hutano hwakasiyana-siyana vanovabvumira kuti vasarudze murume kana mukadzi nekuda kweukama hukuru nehupamhi hunoenderana nekufunga kwepfungwa uye nyanzvi dzemhepo. Ichiwo chisarudzo chakanaka chevanhu vakabatikana uye avo vanotya kuzivana pachavo.
Nzira yekuzivana sei kune imwe nyika kune hukama hwakakomba?
Nzira yekuwana sei mupfumi wehukama hwakakomba, uye kunyange mutorwa? Kazhinji kacho mubvunzo uyu unobvunzwa nevasikana vaduku vane vavariro dzakakwirira uye chinangwa chavo, chavanofunga kuita. Izvi zvinonyanya kukosha kudarika kutarisa kwepamusoro. Munyika yemazuva ano, kunosvika kune dzimwe nyika, ndiko kufamba, mabhizimisi, kuenda kune dzimwe nyika, dzidzo dzekushandura kune dzimwe nyika inogona kuwanikwa munyika yako. Nokudaro, zvinokosha kune musikana kana mukadzi akaisa chinangwa chekudzidza mitauro yekunze, seChirungu.
Mumaguta makuru, pane maitauro emakwikwi akarongeka mu cafe - ikoko iwe unogona kazhinji kuzivana nevatorwa. Usakanganwa uye nzvimbo dzekufambidzana uye uwane mumwe wako muwanano kubva kumativi ose enyika, asi unofanira kutarisa nzvimbo yakasarudzwa. Kuvimbisa kuti inosangana nehutano hwekuchengetedza, nokuti kune nguva dzakawanda dzekunyengedza pane zvakadaro. Inozivikanwa mumutambo wekufambidzana nzvimbo:
- cutonly.ru;
- al-o.ru;
- internationalcupid.com;
- meetic.com;
- eHarmony.
Nzira yekuvaka ukama hwakasimba nemurume?
Kufambidzana nemhuri uye ukama hwakasimba ibasa guru. Zvimwe mazano ezvepfungwa dzepfungwa zvekuvaka ukama hwakakomba:
- mumwe munhu haagoni kuchinjwa, iwe unogona kuchinja iwe pachako, saka kudzidzisa murume kunoparadza ukama hwakakomba, munhu wose anoda kuramba ari oga;
- zvinowanzokosha kuti mukadzi atore danho rokutanga kwaari;
- kana pane kukakavara, usapindira muhukama hwevabereki, shamwari;
- kubatana kunowedzera kusimbisa kukurukurirana;
- kukwanisa kuteerera, kunzwa izvo munhu anoda kutaura uye kukwanisa kumuteerera paanorwara;
- taurira murume kakawanda kuti anodiwa uye anodiwa;
- zvishamiso, zvifaro zvinonakidza - varume vanozvifarira zvakaenzana nevakadzi, zvinokosha kushamisika nekuyemura nguva nenguva;
- Kuremekedza ndiyo mudziyo unopa maitiro ekuda, pasina ruremekedzo, ukama hwakasimba hahubviri.
Nzira yekuziva sei kuti murume anoda hukama hwakakomba?
Vasikana vasina ruzivo rwakawanda mukubata nevanhurume vakasiyana-siyana vanowanzobvunza: sei kunzwisisa kuti mukomana anoda hukama hwakakomba? Pakati pevechidiki, kune vose vane mhosva uye avo vanoda kungofara. Mumwe mukomana kana murume akatova wakakura, achitaura zvakanyanyisa kune akasarudzwa ake anozviratidza seanotevera:
- edza kushandisa nguva yakawanda nevadiwa vako;
- rinoratidza kutarisira uye unyoro;
- anoda kumurarisa mumaziso;
- edza kudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pemusikana;
- anotaura pamusoro pezvirongwa zvake;
- anoziva hama dzake neshamwari;
- akagadzirira kuumba ukama.
Nzira yekutaura nemurume nezvehukama zvakakosha sei?
Ukama hwakasimba nemurume kana murume - kazhinji chido ichi chinotanga kutanga mumukadzi, kurara kwakasimba hakukurumidzi kuzvisunga nemitoro yenguva refu. Nzira yekutaura nemurume zvakanyanya nezvehukama:
- taura chokwadi, chii chinotarisirwa kubva paukama uhwu;
- Mumukoka zvinyoronyoro kuti asangane nevabereki kumativi maviri;
- kana munhu asina kugadzirira kuva neukama hwakasimba, kumubvunza kuti nei, chii chiri kumuisa, kana chiri kutya , iwe unogona kudzoka zvakare kumuganhu uyu kana akagadzirira.
Nzira ipi yekuendesa ukama hwehukama muhukama hwakakomba?
Mukadzi ane chido chekutarisira kuti munhu achagara pane rimwe zuva, zvinogona kutora makore akawanda, asi iye achamirira. Nzira yekushandura ukama huri kunze kwezvisungo kune zvakakomba? Kana izvi zvisina kuitika kwenguva yakakwana, saka hazvigone kuitika. Asi iwe unogona kuedza. Kuti uite izvi, edza kuumba nzvimbo yakadaro yakakomberedza iwe, kuitira kuti munhu anzwe kuti anokoshesa uye anodiwa, hazviwanzoshanda nguva dzose, asi zvinhu zvose zvakasiyana.
Murume haadi hukama hwakakomba, anofanira kuitei?
Murume wacho haadi ukama hwakakomba - zvakakosha kuti uongorore ukama hukama hwakadaro, kana hwakakosha, saka iwe unofanira kutora danho mumaoko ako, taura nemurume, tsvaga zvirongwa zvake, tarisiro. Kana asingazvioni iye muukama hwakakomba, zvakakosha kubvisa mafungiro nekuparadzanisa, kutsvaga munhu anoda kuenderera kune imwe nzira, kuti mhuri dzipi dzinokosha zvakakosha. Kune mukadzi anoramba akasununguka uye ari kutya kuva oga , unofaniri kuzvitarisira iwe, kuti uone mukati mako munhu akanaka akakodzera shamwari yakanaka, ane hanya pamwe chete.
Sei vanhu vachitya hukama hwakakomba?
Murume haadi hukama hwakakomba nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana siyana:
- akakurira asina baba, varume vakadaro vanotya basa ravanogona kusiya mhuri panguva ipi zvayo;
- kamwe mudiwa wake akamusiya;
- kutya kana kusada kwebaba;
- kurasikirwa kwekusununguka;
- haigoni kukwanisa ukama hwakadaro nekuda kwekushaya kwekugadzikana kwemari.