Syndrome of a honors student

Syndrome yekuremekedza mudzidzi (kana kukudza mudzidzi) - inherera mune vamwe vana nevakuru vanhu pfuma, kuwedzeredza maitiro avo, vanozvifungidzira, vachitarisa pane imwe tsika yekuzvibata. Mune mamwe mazwi, dambudziko rekuremekedza mudzidzi rinogona kunzi kushandiswa kwekutendeseka kunowanzoitwa nevana vazhinji, kunyanya vachiri kuyaruka mukuchinja.

Maitiro emwana ane chirwere chemukondi wepachikoro

Mwana ane ruzivo rwemukondi wechikoro haafaniri kutorwa kuti ashande kwenguva yakareba, verenga mabhuku akawanda uye kazhinji anodzidza zviyero zvinowanikwa mumhanzi wechikoro. Pasina mazano kubva kumativi, mwana akadaro anonzwisisa kukosha kwekudzidza. Hapana chikonzero chekuisa mwana akadaro semuenzaniso. Kazhinji, mwana ane chirwere chakanaka chemudzidzi anogara aine pamberi pemaziso ake uye anoedza nzira dzose kumutevedzera. Zvisinei, kufarira kudzidza uye chido chokuva nemigumisiro yakanakisisa kunoshungurudza kukwanisa kwomwana akadaro kufambidzana. Nekuda kwekuti mwana ane chirwere chepachikoro chakanakisisa anowedzera zvinodhaka kune vezera rake, iye zvimwe haatauri nevadzidzi vekirasi zvachose, kana asingakwanisi kutaura navo paanenge akafanana netsoka. Dambudziko guru nevadzidzi vakakurumbira nderokuti havagoni kubata vamwe sevamwe.

Nzira yekubatsira mwana kubvisa sei zvakaoma / chirwere chemunhu anoyemura mwana?

  1. Rega kutsigira rutendo rwemucheche ari oga. (Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro zvine ngozi kutaura, iwe hauna kufanana nevamwe vose, iwe ndiwe wakanakisisa.)
  2. Inowanzova nemwana mumakambani uko kune vezera rako. (Munyaya iyi, zvakakosha kuti mwana azive kuti vabereki vake vanoremekedza vabereki vevabereki vavo, zvisinei kuti zvakadini zvekukurukurirana kwakadaro kuchava zero.)
  3. Ramba uchitaura nevana nevezera rako. (Asi kwete nenzira ye "Ipai mabhuku enyu, endai muchivanze chiri nani!", Kubva mune iyi nyaya mwana achagara zvakare kune mabhuku. Kana mwana wacho asingadi kubatsira nemabasa epamba, taura kuti usamurega achienda nekirasi kuti atarise rimwe guta kana firimu kana asingashambi ndiro shure kwekudya kwevhiki. Pamashoko akadaro emubvunzo, mwana wacho pakarepo achada kuita kana kuita izvozvo pakutanga pane zvingasava zvinodiwa.)
  4. Usaedza kuzunungusa mwana akanaka, achiratidza kukanganisa kwake. (Kana nyeredzi isingazivikanwi chifananidzo chemucheche, ramba uchiunza ruzivo rutsva pamusoro payo, kugovera kubva mumagazini, mapepa.Zvino zvakawanda izvo mwana wacho anogamuchira, kukurumidza kushushikana kwake kunofamba. Uye kana icho chakanaka chemwana chiri pakati peavo vaunozivana, itai mwana nemunhu uyu. Usadzivirire mwana kuti arege kutaurirana nevanhu vakadaro, kana zvisinei kuti zvakanaka zvichawana ara yakakura yeutsvene, uye izvi zvinokuvadza.)