Mhando dzevanhu dzounhu

Mumwe nomumwe wedu ane nhamba yakawanda yevamwe shamwari. Vamwe vanoda kugunun'una pamusoro pehupenyu, vamwe vanoshumira semuenzaniso. Zvose zvavo zvakasiyana zvachose, vanhu pachavo. Asi ivo vane zvimwe zvakafanana uye maitiro, ayo anonzi kuchena. Iwe unoziva kuti ndiwe rudzii rwekugadzikana iwe uye rudzi rwevanhu vaunoda zvakanyanya? Kana zvisingaiti, isu tichakuzivisai zvose zvese zveiyi nyaya.

Mamiriro - ayo uye maitiro

Zvechokwadi vanhu vazhinji vakanzwa nezvemunhu, kuti iye munhu ane hasha. Asi chii chiri shure kwemashoko aya uye zvii zvakamubvumira kuti ape kuongorora kwakadaro? Kudzidza kwemhando dzetsika kwakabatsira kuita sarudzo kune avo vanofunga nezvepfungwa kuti pfungwa dzomunhu dzomunhu dzinopfuurira mune imwe rhythm, manzwiro anokwanisa kuratidzwa mumagetsi akasiyana uye simba rezviito rinosiyanawo. Chimiro chakanyatsobatana nehupenyu husina hanya hwebasa rinotyisa revanhu. Iyo inoratidzirwa nekusiyana pakati pevanhu maererano nemanzwiro, manzwiro, maitiro uye chero basa. Mune mamwe mazwi, uku ndiko kusimba kwehuhu, hunova nehanya, hunozviratidza muhuduku uye hahukweretesi mukurera. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti zvitendero, mararamiro ehupenyu uye nyika yose kune hutano hazvina chokuita nazvo.

Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakaparadzanisa marudzi ehutano muzvikamu zvina, chimwe nechimwe chazvo chiri chimiro cheunhu hunokosha, asi nenzira yakachena haina chaicho. Saka, maitiro ehutano hwemazuva ano akaparadzaniswa kuva choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic uye melancholic.

  1. Choleric. Munhu ane chimiro chakafanana anozivikanwa nechiitiko chakajeka chematunhu akasiyana uye nekukurumidza kuvakanganwa. Kazhinji izvi zvinoratidzirwa nekutsamwa nekukurumidza nekukurumidza kukurumidza kukurumidza. Chimiro chechileric chinoratidzira muridzi wayo semunhu ari nyore uye ane simba. Muhupenyu hwevanhu vakashata vane mashuwo anonyanya kuda, avo vane zviitiko nguva dzose zvakadzika, manzwiro pakarepo vanotsiva mumwe nemumwe, uye kufamba kunopinza uye kunokurumidza.
  2. Sanguine. Inotaridzika somunhu ane chimiro, asi kana yekutanga kufamba yakakosha, saka vanhu vanorwara vanoita kuti zvive nyore uye zvakanaka. Vanhu vane ruzivo rwakadaro vanogona kunzi mahara. Emotional inotaura, nekukurumidza kushandura mumwe nomumwe, usanonoka mukuziva kwevanhu vane ropa. Nokudaro, anokurumidza kukanganwa zvipikiso uye zvinyorwa. Kazhinji, munhu anofara, uyo ane chiso chinonyanya kushamisika, icho chinonakidza uye chinongokanganisa nyore nyore nekunze kwekunze.
  3. Melancholic. Unhu hwakadai hunogona kuwanika kune vanhu vane kufamba kunononoka kwepfungwa. Kazhinji munhu anonyunyuta anogona kunzi munhu, uyo anowanzosuruvara kana kusuruvara, kufamba kwake kunononoka uye kusinganzwisisiki, iye pachake haakwanisi, akavhara uye haana kufambidzana. Vanhu vakadaro vakaoma zvikuru pakuona matambudziko ehupenyu, kuchengeta manzwiro avo mukati me mweya yavo uye kazhinji vanozeza mukuita zvisarudzo.
  4. Phlegmatic. Kufanana nekunyunguduka, munhu akadaro anonyanya kusiyaniswa nekuderera munhau uye mumutauro wake. Zvinenge zvisingagoneki kupenga nemhaka yemunhu uye asingatauriki. Usati watora chero chiito, phlegmatic inonyatsotarisisa ichicherechedza. Nokudaro, vanhu vakadaro vanoramba vakasimba kumabasa avo uye vanokurudzirwa zvakasimba kushanda, nekutambudzika kushandura kune imwe.

Iwe unoziva sei rudzi rwako rwehutano?

Nhasi, tsanangudzo yerudzi rwehutano ibasa iro kunyange mwana wechikoro anogona kukunda. Vamwe vanhu vanongoda kuverenga tsanangudzo yemhando imwe neimwe yemarudzi, kuitira kuti vanzwisise chii chavanosanganisira. Zvisinei, unyanzvi hwekuongororwa hwakadai sehutano hunosanganisira kusanganiswa kwemhando dzakasiyana-siyana uye nzira dzakagadzirirwa kuwana chifananidzo chakakwana chepfungwa dzepfungwa dzemunhu.

Chimwe chezvinhu zvakajeka ndiyo nzira yekugadzirisa rudzi rwehutano. Boundary. Nyaya yacho inobvunzwa kurongedza nemutsara mumwe wezvinhu 15 zvinoratidza humwe hutano.

Kwete. Unhu huripo Sanguine Phlegmatic Choleric Melancholic
1 Kuenzanisa kwekuita Zvakanaka Zvakakwana kuenzanisa Unbalanced Unalanced
2 Zvakaitika mupfungwa Zvisiri izvo, nguva pfupi Ineta Simba, nguva pfupi Yakadzika uye yakareba kwenguva refu
3 Mood Kuramba, kufara Kuramba, pasina mufaro mukuru uye kushungurudzika Kusanzwisisika ne-predominance yesimba Kusagadzikana nezvakawanda zvekusava netariro
4 Kutaura Yakaderera, inofadza, yakashata Zvinyararire, zvinofadza Yakaderera, yakapinza, isina kukwana Akadzikama uye ane simba
5 Kushivirira Moderate Yakakura chaizvo Ineta Ndisina simba
6th Adaptation Zvakanaka Slow Zvakanaka Zvakaoma (yakavharwa)
7th Sociability Moderate Low High Low (yakavharwa)
8th Kugumburwa mukuzvibata Nzira ine rugare Dzivisa maitiro Ane utsinye Kuita hunyengeri, kutsamwa uye kudzivisa zvinetso
9th Maitiro ekutsoropodza Calm Vasina hanya Kufara Kushungurudzika
10 Chiito mubasa Vakuru (bhizinesi) Maitiro emushandi asina kukwanisa Passionate, passionate Kutadza, kusazvibata (semhinduro kumabasa evamwe)
11th Maitiro kune iyo itsva Vasina hanya Negative Zvakanaka Iko mafungiro akanaka anotsiviwa nekusava nechivimbo uye pamwe chete
12th Maonero echiitiko Kuverenga, pasina ngozi yakawanda Huru-ropa, risingafungiri Kurwisana, njodzi, pasina ruzivo rwokuverenga Kunetseka, kuvhiringidzika, kuora mwoyo
13th Kuedza kuva nechinangwa Kurumidza, kudzivisa zvipingamupinyi Zvishoma, zvakasindimara Wakasimba, nokuzvipira zvizere Iyo yakasimba, iyo yakadaro isina simba, nekudzivisa zvipingamupinyi
14th Kuzviongorora Vamwe kuongorora zvakare maitiro avo Kuongorora kwechokwadi kwezvavanogona Kuongorora kunokosha kweunyanzvi hwako Kazhinji kazhinji - kusadzingiswa kwezvavanogona
15th Kufunganya nekufungira Small Yakasimba Moderate Makuru
Sum of points

Ngatitii mubvunzo mubvunzo wekuti "Kuenzanisa Maitiro", mhinduro kwauri "yakanyatsokwana" uye mhinduro "zvakanaka-balance" inenge isina kururama. Muchiitiko ichi, mhinduro yakakosha zvikuru inokwana 2 points, pasi pe1 point, uye zvakasara zvinokosha zero.

Rudzi rwehumwe, iyo pakupedzisira, runopfurikidza nehumwe nehupi, hukuru.

Sezvo uine hutano hunozviziva iwe pachako kana ani zvake wevanhu vanofarira, usakanganwa kuti kuziva nzira yekuziva rudzi rwehutano hahupi hunovimbisa huwandu hwezana hwepfumbamwe hit. Muzvisikwa, hutsinye hunoitika muhupenyu hwakavhenganiswa, mune imwe inonyanya kukosha. Nokudaro, kunyange kana uri nechivimbo chokuti unoziva munhu zvakanaka, usakanganwa matambudziko eunhu hwake.