Vakadzi vazhinji, avo vari munzira vakasangana nemurume akavharwa, vari kufunga nezvekunzwisiswa kwechitenderi murume. Munhu uyu haafariri kukurukurirana zvenyika, haakurukuri nevamwe nezvekunzwa kwake uye zvakaitika, anobata zviri nani ari oga. Haasi mukadzi wose anokwanisa kuwana nzira kumunhu akadaro.
Male introvert
Zvinyorwa zvinoumba anenge 30% yehuwandu hwevanhu. Uyu munhu anochengetedza, anoda kana zvinhu zvose zvichifamba maererano neurongwa hwakarongwa. Kwete kutaura, unofarira kushandiswa kwemhuri-style uye haitenderi makambani ane ruzha. Zvakakosha kuti apedze nguva imwe oga ari oga. Kazhinji munhu akadaro munhu ari oga. Haanzwisisi manzwiro ehasha, haatsvaki kudurura mharidzo, asi ane zviitiko zvakawanda zvinomuita kuti apedze nguva ari oga naiye pachake.
Nzira yekukurukurirana sei nemurume wechivimbiso?
Mubvunzo wekuti ungakunda sei murume wekutanga wekutanga ane mhinduro imwechete yakarurama: iwe unofanira kumupa nguva yakakwana yega. Ingozvigamuchira sezvazviri, uye usaedza kuzvidzorera iwe pachako-ichazvikoshesa.
Chero bedzi iwe uriwo musha wemusha uye usingafari mapoka ane ruzha, uchawana kunzwisisa pamwe naye. Shoko rimwe nerimwe rinoremerwa, saka haadi kufarira kutaura. Anopfira pamagariro evanhu uye mitemo, ane zvake. Zviri nani kupa munhu akadaro rusununguko rwekusarudza, uye kwete kumuendesa mune chero mufananidzo.
Iva wakagadzirira kuti rudo rwemurume arikutanga nderudo runyararire, umo vanhu vaviri vanogona kuva pamwe vasina kutaura shoko kune mumwe nemumwe. Hazvina kudikanwa kudururira guru guru pamusoro pake uye kumutambudza nemibvunzo, sezvo asingakupi mhinduro dzakajeka. Izvo hazvina maturo sekumukurumidza - haambotauri chero kupi zvako uye haaregi kurwisana. Unobvumirana neukama hwakadaro here? Vachakuteverai here? Chero bedzi munyaya iyi iwe uchafara nemurume wekutanga.