Kana iwe uchifunga zvakanyatsonaka, unogona kusvika pakugumisa kuti mupfungwa yepasi rese, hupenyu hwedu hwose hukama. Ukama ibasa, bhizinesi, rudo, zvepabonde, zororo, shamwari, mhuri, nezvimwewo. Iyi ndiyo nzira yatinorarama nayo uye tinoratidzirana, uye shure kwezvose, tashandura unyanzvi hwedu pakuvaka hukama, zvingave zvichikwanisa kuvandudza hupenyu hwehupenyu.
Munyika, mamiriyoni e mabhuku pamusoro pepfungwa dzehukama dzakanyorwa uye dzakabudiswa. Asi kana ivo vakaipa kwazvo zvokuti havaiti muchokwadi, kana isu hatikwanisi kuishandura kuti tidzidze yakanyorwa nevanyori vakachenjera. Asi, zvisinei, kuva netariro, tichabvuma kuti mamwe mabhuku akanyorwa zvisina kururama, nenzira iyo iyo mazano ari pamusoro apa haadi kuda kutevera ...
Tichaedza kukugadzirira iwe rudzi rwakanakisisa rwekutsvaga, mabhuku akaisvonaka pamusoro pepfungwa yehukama. Asi kana bhuku racho rava nepamusoro-soro redu, iwe uchamanikidzwa kubatana pane zvakanyorwa mazviri.
Freud ndeye nyika-classic classic, uye ichiri chisina kunaka ...
Ngatitangei nemabhuku anozivikanwa pamusoro pepfungwa yehukama, uye isu hatikwanisi kutanga na tenzi munharaunda iyi. Bhuku raFreud rinonzi Psychology of Sexuality panguva imwe yakamutsa dutu rekutsamwa muPuritan Europe, uye kunyange nhasi, paunoudza mumwe munhu (uyo asina kuverenga Freud zvachose) kuti unoda basa reyi psychoanalyst, ironic grin ye interlocutor inokumirira .
Hongu, Freud, zvirokwazvo, akazvigadzira mukurumbira wake. Asi chaizvoizvo vazhinji vanovhura zvakavanzika zvavo "Ini" nekuda kwemabasa ake. Mune bhuku iri, hongu, psychology yehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi, chiitiko chebisexualism, pamwe nekusiyana kwakasiyana-siyana, kukanganisa, maitiro emhandara, narcissism, nezvimwewo, zvinotsvakurudzwa.
Kuvaka ukama nemwi ...
Kubva mubhuku remazuva ano pamusoro pepfungwa dzehukama, zvakakosha kugovera bhuku razvino rekusikwa kwe "I" itsva yakanyorwa naAmerican psychologist Tina Siling "Ita iwe. Mazano kune avo vanoda kubuda mazita avo " Bhuku rino richabatsira kutanga vatengesi, avo vanoda kuwana nzira yekuita pfungwa. Muchidimbu, munyori anoratidza chinhu chitsva chematambudziko: chero muedzo ndiwo mukana mutsva, zvichibatsira kuzarura mano avo ekusika .
For all occasions ...
Imwe yakakurumbira, tinogona kunyange kutaura chitendero, bhuku pamusoro pepfungwa yehukama - "Mitambo inotambwa navanhu. Vanhu vanotamba mitambo . " Chaizvoizvo, idzi mabhuku maviri, asi anowanzodhindwa mumutambo. Munyori ndiye Eric Berne , nheyo yekutengesa kwekutengesa. Berne akagoverana nehupenyu hwedu newe pazvinhu zvitatu: "Mukuru" (akareruka, maitiro anobatsira), "Parent" (patinotevedzera tsika dzevabereki) uye "Mwana" (manzwiro, mafaro, mafungiro okusika). Mune mararamiro akasiyana-siyana, tinosanganisira chimwe chezvizvi zvitatu "Ini", uye Bern mubhuku rake anorondedzera zviitiko zvehupenyu nemamiriro ezvinhu, kugadzirisa mamiriro aya. Somugumisiro, hatiwaniki bhuku chete pamusoro pepfungwa, asiwo mari yebasa rekushandisa kwechipiri cheshandise.
Tose tiri vatorwa ...
J. Grey akava munyori wenyika anozivikanwa nekuda kwebhuku rake "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" .