Pasinei nokuti mishonga, inenge ichiita seyo, haisati yakamira, nhasi hakuna nzira dzakakwana dzekugadzirira kuberekwa kwecheche pane imwe nyaya yepabonde. Zvichakadaro, kune mazano mazhinji anobatsira uye mazano anogona kubatsira kubata ramangwana remukomana kana musikana. Munguva yekushambadzira kwepfungwa, mwana wemukomana mumwechete kana mumwe anoberekwa kakawanda kudarika nehupenyu hwepanyama, zvisinei, uye kune mikana yakawanda yekusafambisa.
Kwemakore, vanhu vazhinji vanoshandisa nzira dzakasiyana-siyana mukuronga zvepabonde rwemangwana mwana. Vamwe vakaroorana vanonamatira kune kudya kwakakosha, vamwe - kutsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune vanoongorora nyeredzi uye karenda yemwedzi, asi vamwe vanoedza kuwana mhinduro kumubvunzo wavanenge vaine, mumatafura akasiyana.
Zvakakosha here kuvimba mabheji ekutora pamuviri?
Vanhu vazhinji vane chivimbo chokuti vanogona kugadzirira nekunyatsovhiringidza kubata kwomwana mumwe wepabonde kana mumwewo achishandisa taiti yeChinese kana yeJapan, tafura neropa revanhu, uyewo nezera rababa kana amai. Ichokwadi, chokwadi, izvi hazvisi kure. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinobvumirana kuti nzira dzakadaro dzinovakirwa chete padzidziso yehutano uye haitsigirwi nesayenzi chero ipi zvayo nekutsvakurudza, uye naizvozvo kururamisira kwekuita zvepabonde kwechibvumirano nekubatsira kwavo kune 50%.
Pasinei neizvi, matafura akadaro ave achishandiswa kwemakore mazhinji. Izvi zvinonyanya kuitika pamitauro yeJapan neChinese, iyo yakavakirwa pazviuru zvemakore zvechiitiko chekucherechedza kwevanyori vekumabvazuva. Kuvimba kana kusavimba nematafura ekutora pamuviri zvechokwadi nyaya yega yega yega. Zvingangodaro, mumwe anofanirwa kubata maitiro akadaro sehose kana mutambo. Panguva imwe chete, inofanira kuonekwa zvakare kuti kunyange zvazvo kwete tafura imwe chete yekuberekwa kwepabonde yemwana ari 100%, vanhu vazhinji vakataura kuti vakanga vane mwana wehutano hwakadaro, hwakagara hwafanotaurwa neizvi kana kuti iyo nzira.
Tafura yeChinese yekugadzirisa zvepabonde zvechecheche
Itafura yeChinese inobatanidza tsanangudzo yehutano hwemwana ari mberi nemakore amai uye mwedzi wokuberekwa:
Kuti uishandise, zvakakwana kuti usarudze zera remamazuva anouya pazuva rekuberekwa mukati mekomba roruboshwe, uye mumutsara uri pamusoro - mwedzi paitika. Sero iri kumativi ose ezvinyorwa zvepakutanga zvichakuudza kuti ndiani angamirira - musikana kana mukomana.
Japanese Table
Tsanangudzo yehutano hwemwana ari patafura yeJapan inofunga mwedzi wekubata pamuviri, pamwe chete nemwedzi iyo iyo amai vaizouya uye baba vecheche vakaberekerwa. Kuti uishandise, unofanira kuita zvinotevera:
- Pakutanga, uchishandisa mazuva ekuberekwa kwemamamume uye vanababa, iwe unofanirwa kuongorora nhamba kubva pa1 kusvika ku 12 maererano neetafura inotevera:
- Zvadaro, unofanirwa kushandisa tafura yakasiyana:
Munharaunda yayo yepamusoro, tsvaga nhamba yakawanikwa mukutanga, uye ienzanise nemwedzi wekuberekwa kwechecheche. Izvo zvipembenene zvakawanda zvehutano hwakasiyana-siyana zviri pamaganho ezvidzidzo izvi, zvakakwirira kuti mikana ichave nemukomana kana musikana, maererano.
Tafura yevabereki veboka reropa
Chimwe chezvinhu zvakajeka uye, panguva imwe chete, matafura asingavimbiki ndiro tafura yeboka reropa revabereki remangwana:
Sarudza hutano hwemwana asati aberekwa chiri nyore kwazvo - tangotarisa izvo zvakanyorwa muchitokisi kumativi ekutenderera kwemutsara uye koromo yakaenderana nemapoka eropa amai nababa. Vanachiremba vazhinji vanofunga kuti iyi nzira inenge isisina maturo, se, sezvinozivikanwa, vabereki vakasiyana-siyana vevabereki vakadaro vanogona kuberekwa, pasinei nekuti boka reropa harina kuchinja nemararamiro ehupenyu.
Kune zvidimbu zvakasiyana-siyana zvema calendari, tafura uye dzimwe nzira dzinobvumira kutsanangura nehupamhi huzhinji hunoberekerwa mumhuri duku - mukomana kana musikana. Panguva iyo, usatsamwiswa kana huporofita husati hwaenderana, nokuti chinhu chikuru ndechekuti mwana ane utano, uye iwe uchada mwanakomana mumwe chete nemwanasikana.