Basa rakanyanya kufadza nderokuva amai veimba. Uye havasi kupa mibairo, uye iwe hausi kuona mazororo, uye kushanda paimba hakuoneki zvachose (kungovapo kwayo chete kunooneka). Hazvisingashamisi kuti mukadzi anogara kumba nevana kana kuti asingashandi chete kazhinji haafariri naye uye anogunun'una kumurume wake manheru. Murume wangu akauya kumba, uye mudzimai wangu aneta uye muchembera, akapfeka-jasi. Mufananidzo wakasiririsa? Kana zviitiko zvakadaro iwe usingadi zvachose, kune nzira yekushandura hupenyu zvakakosha: inobhururuka-inofamba system. Chii ichi "mudzimai anofamba" uye nehupenyu hupi hwaanorarama, tichakurukura zvakanyatsorondedzerwa.
Chii chinobhururuka mudzimai?
Anogara achirayira uye kuchenesa mumba, iye pachake akavakwa zvakanaka uye akapfeka. Zvose zviitiko zvakashandurwa kusati kwasvika kwevana nevakaroorana, uye vhiki yevhiki haisati yatsaurirwa kuchenesa, asi kumhuri. Zvakanaka, kungofanana nemudzimai akanaka uye mudzimai. Pakutanga, mureza wemukadzi ndewe mukadzi ane simba asingazivi kuneta, kana kuti chitunha choupenyu manheru. Asi paunotarisa kwaari, hauzombofungi kuti akaita zvinhu zana nhasi. Vakadzi vemadzimai ava vane mabasa emwedzi uye zuva rimwe nerimwe. Iyo flayledi inobvumira mudzimai kudzidza kuti angada sei uye nguva nenguva achizvipa pachake, paanobudirira kubata nemitemo yose yepamba uye kwete kurasikirwa nemafungiro akanaka.
Kucheneswa nemudzimai wehurumende
Muzvokwadi, zvinhu zvose hazvisi zvakaoma, sezvo zvingaratidzika pakutanga. Iwe haufaniri kumhanya kana kukurumidza kubata zvose. Pane mitemo isinganzwisisiki (mirairo), kana iwe ukanamatira kwavari, zvose zvayo pachazvo zvicharamba zviri mukati megadziriro.
- Chimiro chakanaka. Usazvibvumira kufamba-famba pamba mumba mune jasi rakapfekedzwa uye tsvina. Tinopfeka mazvigadziro, sezvinowanzoitwa, tinopfeka nguo dzakachena uye dzakasununguka. Pfeka shangu dzine mazamu. Chii chakavanzika: Iwe waida kurara pasi uye kuva munhu ane usimbe, uye kubvisa shangu nezvipfeko kwenguva refu. Inokurumidza kukurumidza kupedzisa mabasa ose ezuva rino uye chete nekuzorora.
- Ita nzvimbo imwe mumba, iyo ichava aritari yeutsvene uye ichagara iri yakakwana. Munyori wesangano anoratidza kusarudza kunyura mukicheni. Kunyange zvazvo mvura, kunyange zvazvo chando kana mafashamo, uye shell inofanira kugara iri muhutano hwakakwana uye yakachena. Chii chakavanzika: zvishoma nezvishoma kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzakachena zvakakwana, iwe pachako hauzooni kuti ungatanga kuvasika sei.
- Routine. Mangwanani uye manheru, pane nguva dzose zvinhu zvekuita zuva rimwe nerimwe. Mangwanani iwe unofanirwa kuita bhedha, zviise muhurongwa, tora vana kuchikoro chegoroke kana kuchikoro, chirasire kunze marara. Mamwe manheru, shambidza ndiro uye uiise munzvimbo dzayo, gadzirira marara mangwanani, sva sitofu uzvigadzirire iwe pachako.
- Kanda tsvina kunze kweimba. Nzira yekufambisa yemukadzi iyi inoda kubvisa kubvisa zvisina kufanira panguva uye pasina chikonzero chisingadikanwi. Muimba inofadza hapanofanira kuva nechinhu chisingafadzi.
- Usati watenga zvinhu zvitsva, gadzirira nzvimbo kwavari. Kana iwe ukatenga chimwe chinhu chawakada, zvichida, tsvina iri mumba inotanga kuungana pahanho rekuedza. Tenga zviyero zvezviyo kana pasta zvinofanira kungoitika mushure mekushandisa kwekutenga kwekare. Ivachengetedze zviri nani mumiti imwechete kana midziyo. Nokudaro, mari inoponeswa, uye makabati haana kubatana nemapakiti akasiyana uye mabhokisi. Zvinhu zvekare zvinoda kupiwa kumhuri yakaderera-pfuma kana kukandirwa kunze, chete ipapo kuzogadzirisa wadhirobe.
- Rega hotspots. Edza kuisa mumakorori ako mureza wekadzi wezuva rimwe nerimwe kuti uise mhosva dzinotarirwa mukurwisa kuunganidza marara. Sezvo mutemo, mune imwe nzvimbo iyo pane nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana (hotspots), iyo iyo semaginiti inokwevera marara ose: tafura yemubhedha, girafu rima mumugwagwa. Rimwe zuva rimwe chete unofamba munzvimbo idzi uye uronga zvinhu sezvinotarisirwa.
- Gurai imba muzvikamu. Vhiki rino, iwe unopedza nguva mukicheni, uye pane inotevera uri kuita nursery. Edza kusapedza maminitsi gumi nemashanu pamhosva.
- Tora nguva yako pachako. Usakanganwa kuzviputira nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana uye maminitsi ekutarisira, zvinongova zvakakosha semvura yakachena.
Pano pane nzvimbo inokosha ye "flayushek", uko iwe unogona kubvunza kakatoziva mukadzi inobhururuka pamusoro pezvivande zvavo. Kune vanotanga, basa remukadzi rinotumirwa kwemwedzi mushure mekunyorwa kwemazuva ese nemirairo yezvinofanira kuchenesa nhasi. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvichita sezvinonakidza zvishoma, asi sangano rinoshanda. Kune vakadzi vasingagoni kuzvironga pachavo zuva nezuva, iyi ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekubuda.