Pasinei nekuti vakawanda vakaroorana vemazuva ano vanosarudza kusaita ukama hwavo zvepamutemo uye vanogara mumhuri yevanhu kwemakore mazhinji, munguva pfupi kana gare gare mukadzi mumwe nomumwe anofunga nezvemupfeko womuchato. Zuva rechato nderimwe remazuva anokosha muupenyu hwehupi hwepabonde rakanaka. Pazuva rino, iye ane chokwadi chokuti uyo akasarudzwa achava naye iye hupenyu hwake hwose, uye hukama hwemhuri huchava hurefu uye hunogara. Kunyange zvakadaro, chokwadi chinowanzonyanya kuoma uye michato inopera. Maererano nehuwandu, izvi zvinoitika zvakagadzirirwa zvinopfuura 40% zvehukama. Kunyange zvazvo kurambana uye nzira inoshungurudza, mushure mechinguva vakadzi vazhinji vemazuva ano vachiri kusarudza pamhuri yechipiri.
Uye yekutanga uye yechipiri yakaroorana nemukadzi ndeyeupenyu hwake, izvo zvinoita kuti ave akachenjera. Muchikwata chechipiri, vazhinji vehutano hwakanaka havatombobvumirani zvikanganiso zvakafanana uye havasi kurwisa rimwechete. Zvisinei, imba yechipiri yemurume nemudzimai isarudzo yakasimba. Uye asati agamuchira kubva kune vakaroorana vemazuva ano kune mibvunzo yakawanda.
Kuroorana kwechipiri uye muchato
Kune vakadzi vazhinji vakasarudza kudzoka zvakare-dambudziko guru nderekupembererazve imba. Kazhinji kacho kuonekwa kwakanyatsojeka kunosara nemuchato wokutanga - chipfeko, kupenda, yekudyara, vashanyi vakawanda. Apo iwe unoroora kwechipiri, mukadzi anoda chimwe chinhu chakakosha, asi haufaniri kudzokorora chiitiko chako chakare. Kurasikirwa nemamiriro ezvinhu epfuura, mukadzi wacho anotengesa kudzokera shure, uye izvi zvakasangana zvachose hazvina kufanira mberi kwezuva idzva rinokosha.
Inenge 30% yemhuri inopinda muwanano kwechipiri, inotora mifananidzo yakajeka muhofisi yekunyora uye chikamu chiduku chekupemberera mumutsara wehama dzepedyo nehama. Kana sarudzo iyi inokodzera vose vari vaviri mune ramangwana, saka inogona kuonekwa sekanakisisa.
Kunyange zvakadaro, vakadzi vazhinji vanozviwana zvakaoma kusiya chiyero chokupfekedza chiroto chemuchato zvakare uye kunzwa semwenga. Muchido ichi hakuna chakaipa, kunyanya kana tichifunga nezvechido chevakadzi vedu chekuti vatarise nguva dzose. Sezvo aratidza mafungiro ayo ose, mumiriri wega wega wega wega wepabonde anogona kusarudza chikwata chemuchato chakanakisisa nokuda kwechipiri chechato chake Kuroorana kunopfeka kwechipiri chechato hakugoni kusiyana nenzira ipi zvayo kubva pamapfekero emhuri yekutanga. Zvakakosha kuti mukadzi haaedzi kudzokorora zuva rake rokutanga remuchato uye haana kutarisira zvimwe zvakaitika.
Ukaro hwechipiri nevana
Kubuda kwevana hakuna chinhu chakakosha kudarika nyaya yekuumba ukama nemurume mutsva. Vakadzi vakawanda, vachipinda muchato chechipiri, vaine vana uye vanoda nomwoyo wose,
Pamwe nemurume wechipiri, vakadzi vakawanda vanosarudza pamwana wechipiri. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, murume wechipiri uye mwana wechipiri haafaniri kutora matangwe, zvisinei kuti iye acharamba akadziviswa uye akadziviswa.
Kana murume wechipiri achida mwana, kune vakadzi vazhinji mubvunzo uyu unova dambudziko, kunyanya kana mumwe mwana atova. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vanapfungwa dzepfungwa vanokurudzira kuti vasakakahadzika uye vave nepamuviri, sezvo vana vanobatana vanoita kuti vakaroorana vafare, kunyange mumhuri yechipiri. Kana mhuri iine hupenyu hwakanaka uye hune rudo, saka vana kubva kumhuri yechipiri vanofambidzana zvakanaka nevana kubva kumhuri yekutanga.
Kana iri rutivi rwepamutemo, mukadzi anofanira kuziva kuti chikwata chechipiri hachisi chikonzero chekugumisa kubhadhara kweanmony kubva kumurume wake wokutanga. Uyezve, murume akare-murume anoenderera mberi achibhadhara mwana wechipiri mumhuri yechipiri kumwana wake kubva kumuchato wokutanga. Mari yacho inogona kuongororwa chete kana iya yekare yaimbova nemwana muwanano yake itsva.