Apo zuva rekuberekwa romunhu waunoda riri kuuya, tinotanga kufunga mberi kuti tingamukwazisa sei. Ndinoda kugadzirira kushamiswa kumunhu wangu pazuva rake rekuzvarwa kuitira kuti iye acharangarire uye aifarire. Mumumhanyi mukuru wemafungiro zvakaoma kunzwisisa zvakanyanya izvo zvakakosha kuzviita. Uye zvinoitika kuti hapana zvachose chikonzero chekushamisika kwezuva rekuberekwa. Chero, pane imwe nguva yekufungisisa uye kurongedza zvishoma nzira dzekukwazisa munhu waunoda.
Zvinoshamisa zvinoshamisa zvekuzvarwa
Chinhu chekutanga chatinoita ndotanga kuongororwa kwevamwe shamwari dzedu dzevasikana vakaroorana. Anenge kese yepiri yechipiri anokurudzira kugadzirira manheru emanheru kana emhuri uye kufadza murume wake nechipo chinokosha. Asi shamwari dzake dzinogona kukurudzira chimwe chinhu chinonakidza, nokuti hupenyu hwemhuri hunosiya zvinyorwa zvayo.
Kuita kushamiswa kwezuva rekuzvarwa kunogona kuva nenzira dzakasiyana siyana, pamwe nedzimwe mari uye pasina ivo. Saka, ngationgororei nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokurumbidza murume wako anodiwa:
- Zvinobatsira nguva nenguva kusimbisa muhupenyu hwemhuri, uye zuva rakadaro rakadaro rinogona kuva chikonzero chakanaka cheizvi. Yeuka kuti sei pauduku hwako, pakutanga kwehukama hwako, wakatsvaga maawa akawanda emapurasitiki akanaka kuti umushamise. Nzira yekunyora nayo SMS nechinangwa chisina kunaka. Tumira mwana kuna mbuya uye ugadzirire zvinhu zvose kuitira manheru anodikanwa. Gadzirira kudya kwemanheru, tenga bhodhoro rewaini, iva nechokwadi chokuti uzvichenese. Kushamisika kwakanaka uye kusingatarisirwi kumurume wake pazuva rekuberekwa kwake ndechekuvaraidza, mumabasa ako, chokwadi!
- Zvichida iwe dzimwe nguva wakaona kuti mudiwa wako anofarira kutamba sei nemwanakomana kana mwanasikana wake uye achipemberera mazororo evana. Izvi zvinogona kureva kuti hutano hwemurume wako hwakanga husiri hwakajeka uye hunofadza sezvo achiedza kumuita mwana. Zvichida iyi ndiyo pfungwa yezororo kwauri? Apo murume anovata akarara, mugadzirire iye kushamisika chaiye! Ita bhora rakawanda uye rongedza imba. Chivharo chikuru chine zvinhu zvemarudzi ose mune nzvimbo yakakurumbira uye inobvira, mizhinji yakajeka mavara nemimhanzi. Mafuta evanhu anogona kukonzerwa ne helium, ipapo ivo vachamhanya pasi pedenga, uye mukati menyu munogona kuisa makadhi maduku nemafuta kana masukisi maduku.
- Zvinokwanisika kuti kushamisika kwakanakisisa kune mumwe munhu musi wekuzvarwa kwake ndeyepati huru. Pamberi payo, tarisa mukamuri yemanheru uye kunyevera shamwari dzose. Iva nechokwadi chekutora shoko rimwe nerimwe iro zvese zvicharamba zvakavanzika. Kana iwe uchiziva zvido kana zvido zvemudiwa, gadzirira sangano. Iye achazvikoshesa zvechokwadi!
- Chishamiso kumurume wake musi wekuzvarwa kwake chinogona kugadzirirwa! Semuenzaniso, keke guru remavara asina kujairika. Inogona kuva keke mumhando yezamu. Mune mamwe mazwi, zino rinotapira rakanakisisa chipo chipo chinonyanya kufarira.
- Chii chaunogona kupa murume wako? Vakawanda vehafu yevarume ndivo pragmatists. Asi izvi hazvisi kuzvidzwa mukutungamira kwavo, asi unhu hunhu. Chiyeuchidzo chakanaka chichafadza ziso kupfuura zuva rimwe chete, asi chinhu chinokosha uye chakakosha chichafadza zvakawanda.
Iwe unogona kugadzirira chipo icho murume wako pachake haazozvitenga. Kana ane chido chekuita, asi pedza mari yakawanda paari kune tsitsi, tapota sarudza kufara murume wako nekutengesa kwenguva refu. Iwe unogona, zvechokwadi, kutenga mishonga yekuveura ndeye, asi kuGermany kunyorera kuchafadza kufadza kwaunoita iwe zvakare. - Ndiani akati zvishoma zvoupenzi uye zvinongorangariro zvinongoshanyira varume? Nyora paa asphalt, chirevo che rudo chinogoneka kumunhu! Wakashongedzwa nepende kana choko uye mangwanani-ngwanani nyora kukwazisa nokuda kwewaunoda. Izvozvo zvakajeka, asi kushamisika kunofadza kwezuva rekuzvarwa kunogona kuuya nezvishoma zvekuvandudza kune ukama hwako.