Vanasekuru vedu navanasekuru vaifunga kuti nekubatsirwa nemitambo yakasiyana-siyana, munhu anogona kuvandudza mamiriro avo emari, kukwezva mufaro, utano kana rudo muupenyu hwavo. Vanhu vemazuva ano vanodavirawo kuti tsika dzakadaro dzinoshanda chaizvo, saka dzinowanzozvishandisa kana zvichidiwa. Nzira dzakawanda dzenzira dzakajeka, kana dzichiitwa, zvinhu zvinowanzobatanidzwa uye zvinowanzoshandiswa, somuenzaniso, zvakadai sedhipomstick.
Nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzine ruvara
Rite nemari . Kana uri kutarisana nedambudziko rezvemari kana kuti unoda kuita chinhu chikuru, asi mari haikwani, edza kushandisa rite nyore nemaromato kuti ukweve mari . Iwe unofanirwa kuita izvo zvinotevera, kutanga, kumirira kusvika Muvhuro kana Chishanu uye utenge whisk itsva, asi yeuka kuti iwe unongoda kuutenga kubva kumukadzi wekwegura, saka enda kumisika kana zvitoro zvishoma uwane mutengesi akakodzera kwauri. Chechipiri, pakarepo mushure mekutenga, enda kumusha, kupfiga musuo wepamberi, usina kubvisa shangu dzako, isa mutsva unobata mukona yakarurama pedyo nechemberi. Ndizvo zvose, zvinongoramba zvichiita kuti panicle imire munzvimbo ino kwekanguva kwezuva, mushure mokunge inogona kubviswa pane imwe nzvimbo. Zvinotendwa kuti mukati memavhiki masere iwe uchawana mukana wakakwana kana iwe uchapiwa basa rinokubvumira kuwana mari yakawedzerwa. Ingoyeuka kuti mutambo wemari pamutsva mutsva haugoni kuitwa pamazororo echechi, zvisinei kuti imba inogona kutorwa kwete nehupfumi, asi nechisimba chisina kuchena.
Rite of marriage . Kuti uite tsika iyi, iwe uchada kutenga mutsva mutsva. Kuti uite tsika iyi inotevera musi weSvondo wechitatu wemwedzi upi zvake, musikana mumwe chete anofanirwa kuenda kune vazaarari kana kuchitoro, asingatauri nemumwe munhu uye asingatauri munzira kuenda mberi uye mberi, kuti awane ruzamu uye kudzokera kumusha nenzira imwecheteyo. Pangosvika chikumbaridzo cheimba yacho, zvakakosha kutora kechikanda chausina kupfeka kwemazuva matatu, kuvhara mutsvuku uye kupisa muimba yekurara. Panguva yekukohwa, iwe unofanirwa kuti - "Ndinofa, ndinounza imba inofadza, ndinounza chikomba, mufaro unouya, usamboenda," mushure mokunge uchinge wawedzera, bvisa ruvara kubva pamaketeni muimba yako yekurara usina kubvisa chikwata chake, mushure memazuva matatu unogona kuchigadzirisa zvakare mune imwe nzvimbo.
Rite yekutengeswa kwemaimba . Panewo mitambo inobatsira kutengesa imba iyo inobatsira, kana iwe usingakwanisi kuwana mutengi kana iwe usingagutswi nemutengo wakatarwa, edza kuzvishandisa, vanhu vazhinji vanoti nguva pfupi mushure mekuita nemhemberero yekutengesa kwembai, zvipo zvinoedza zvikuru zvakaonekwa uye chibvumirano chakasayirwa pasina matambudziko. Pamutambo, unoda kutora tsvuku musi weChishanu, usingatauri, uye kutora mvura tsvene muchechi . Mhemberero nemutsara wekutengeswa kweimba inotanga nekuti iwe unofanirwa kusasa panicle nemvura yakachena uye uchiipisa neimba yose, uchiti: "Ndinoshuva, ndinokwezva vatengi vakapfuma, ndinovapa kwemazuva matatu, ndinoisa mazwi aya nemvura."
Imwe tsika yekutengeswa nekukurumidza kwemaimba inotaridzika inoita seiyi, tenga bhuu, kumirira kusvika 3: 00 mangwanani uye uverenge chigadziro - "Sora iwe meto, vatengi vanokohwa, kutarisa kwekutanga, kutarisa kwechipiri, chechitatu inotora, inondiunza kubudirira". Mashoko anotaurwa katatu, mushure mokunge tsvava inogona uye inofanira kushandiswa kakawanda sezvinobvira, inofungidzirwa kuti chibvumirano chinofanira kupedzerwa mumavhiki anotevera.
Kana iwe ukaita chero chezvinhu zvakataurwa pamusoro apa, yeuka mitemo miviri yepamusoro, kana uchitenga tsvaga iwe haugone kutaurirana, uye usingaiti tsika mune magetsi, zviri nani kuvhara kenduru chechechi, saka tsika inenge ichinyatsobudirira.