Nguva dzose zvinonetsa kuti mumwe nomumwe wedu aparadzane nezvinhu zvaimbove zvakada kwatiri. Asi kana vamwe vanhu vane zvakakwana kuti vabvumire kuti vanokura kunze kwezvokudya zvavo zvavanofarira, zvinhu zveimba zvinoparara uye kunyange firimu ine hupenyu hwemararamiro, vamwe vakagadzirira kutarisa rimwe rimwe riripo riri kubva kune rimwe ravakadzidza kutasva kana kuchengeta shangu dzakasakara mufiriji yekare mu loggia !! !!
Chinhu chinonyanya kufadza ndechokuti vanhu vanobva muchikwata chokutanga vanowanzofarira zvinhu zvitsva uye vanakidzwa noupenyu, asi vamiririri vechikamu chechipiri, pasinei nehuwandu hwemhuka, marwadzo, kazhinji vanofanira kuwana zvigaro.
Zvinoratidzika kuti inguva yekuziva-nei izvi zvichiitika uye 5 zvikonzero zvinokosha nei uchida kubvisa zvinhu zvekare uye zvisingakoshi!
1. Mutemo wehuwandu: "Kune imwe itsva inouya, unofanira kubvisa zvinhu zvakare."
Mitemo yezvose zvakasakanganiswa, uye inoshanda, kana iwe uchida kana kwete! Uye maererano nemurairo wehuwandu, Zvose (zvakanaka, kana Masimba Apamusoro) hazvioni hazvo nzvimbo iyo iwe unogona "kutumira" chimwe chinhu chitsva, asi panguva ino pane dzimwe nguva zvakanyanya kusakosha!
2. Chirevo cheChinese - "Zvekare hazvizoperi, itsva haigoni kusvika!"
Chero zvaunogona kutaura, mafirosofi ekuEastern mave asina kunyanya kupfupika uye nechisimba sezvakaitwa neEurope, uye kwemakumi emakore yakabatwa nehuchenjeri hunhu. Iwe unoda kunakidzwa noupenyu, rugare nerunyararo here? Saka, tinotora tsumo!
3. Maererano ne feng shui, zvinhu zvekare zvinodzivisa kusununguka kwehupenyu hwehupenyu hunopa Qi.
Daoist tsika yekufananidzira kukura kwekasa (feng shui) yakagara yakazvisimbisa seimwe yevashandi zvikuru! Maererano nekudzidzisa kwake, kusvikira iwe uchibvumira kutenderera simba rinokosha reQi, kureva, usarasa zvinhu zvisingakoshi, marara, marara, kusina kuchinja kwakanaka muupenyu kana kutenga zvinhu zvitsva uye hazvikwanisi! Mukuwedzera, zvinhu zvakaputsika kana zvinhu zvakakanganisika (zvakasimbiswa, zvakagadziriswa, zvakaputsika) zvinoshanda sevanokurudzira - vanobvisa simba rako uye vanosimbisa simba risina kunaka, rinosanganisa hutano hwako uye hukama hwakanaka.
4. Emotional "anchors" yekare
Apo patinowana mhembwe yekare uye tichiiedza, shandisa zvinonhuwira izvo zvisina kushandiswa kwemakore gumi, kana kunzwa rwiyo, pasi pacho chiitiko chinokosha chakaitika kamwe chete, zvino tinouya pasi pesimba re "anchors" yekare yapfuura kana, zviri nyore, tinotakurwa panguva iyo inosanganiswa nevaya zviyeuchidzo (kwete nguva dzose zvakanaka). Hazvina maturo, shamwari dzakadaro dzinobereka kwete kwete manzwiro, asi mafungiro ekare. Uye tikapiwa pfungwa idzi kuti dzigadzire hupenyu hwedu, tinogona kudzokera kwatakatanga ...
5. Mafungiro evarombo
Kazhinji hatigoni kugovana nezvinhu zvekare, tichikakavadzana kuti hapana mari yeimwe itsva, uye isu hatikwanise kuwana zvakafanana mune ramangwana redu. Uye unoziva chii chiri kuitika panguva ino? Tinotanga kurongedza nemafungiro evarombo (kuva nemhepo yakafanana) uye kugamuchira urombo mukudzoka. Isu tinozvigadzirira pachedu kurombo! Panguva imwecheteyo, kubvisa zvakaputsika, zvekare kana zvisingakoshi nemafungiro "Ndichatenga zvakawanda kana kuti zvisikwa zvose zvinondibatsira kuti ndisarudze zviri nani", iwe unogona kukurumidza kusvetuka mukati mekusangana nevapfumi ndokutanga "kuparidzira" simba rekubudirira!
Chinhu chero chipi zvacho, chinotakura mukati mawo simba repfungwa, iro rakaisa murume uyu. Kana usina kuishandisa kwemakore anopfuura maviri, kana kuti iyo isingakoshi kwauri, "inouraya". Uye zvinhu zvose zvakakupoteredza iwe zvinofanira kupa mufaro, chido chokurarama uye kufambira mberi. Yenguva yekuchinja hupenyu huri nani uye "kujekesa" nzvimbo yekufara uye yakawanda!