Munguva dzekare, vabereki uye chikomborero chomuroori chaisungirwa, pasina iye hapana aizoroora. Nhasi, mhemberero iyi yakarashika kukosha kwayo, asi zvakadaro vazhinji vakaroorana vatsva kugamuchira chikomborero chevabereki vavo pamuchato.
Chikomborero chevabereki pamuchato
Chiitiko chekuropafadzwa kwevabereki chine zvikamu zviviri: musati waroora (mubati kana mutambo) uye musati wapemberera.
- Pamberi pemuchato, mwenga nemuroori vanogamuchira chikomborero chevabereki vemwenga. Zvinowanzoitika mushure mekuregererwa, apo mukomba atova akakunda mabasa ose anonyengera uye akawana kumwenga, asi asati abva mumba make. Kuteerera nemamiriro ekupedzisira kunogadziriswa - hupenyu hutsva hunotangira mberi kwechikumbaridzo, naizvozvo chikomborero chekutanga chechikwata chinofanira kuwanika vasati vabva kumba kwevabereki. Vabereki vomuchato vanoti mazwi ekuparadzanisa uye anoshuva kuvarume vaviri vakaroorana. Izvi zvinoonekwa sechiratidzo chekubvumira kwomusikana wacho akasarudzwa, uye kwete kungofarira hupenyu hunofadza. Chikomborero chekutanga chinogona kugamuchirwa pazuva rekugadzirisa. Asi nhasi tsika iyi haisati yacherechedzwa kakawanda, saka kazhinji vaduku vose vanogamuchira zvikomborero zvose pazuva remuchato.
- Chikomborero chechipiri pamuchato avo vakaroorana vanowanikwa kubva kuvabereki vemukadzi. Izvi zvinoitika mushure mekudzoka kubva ku REGISTRY (chechi) pamberi pesuo reimba yemabiko kana imba yemuwani. Vabereki vomukati vanotaura mazwi anodziya uye vanoda kuti upenyu hufadze hupenyu hwemhuri. Vabereki vanogona kuratidza chikomborero chavo mukukwazisa panguva yemabiko. Inogona kuva nhetembo yekukurumbidza kana nyaya pamusoro pehutano hwakanaka hwemwanasikana (mwanakomana), pakuguma uko vabereki vanotaura kuti vana vavo vachava nechokwadi chekuti vanofara muwanano. Nenzira, baba vemwenga vanofanira kutanga vachitaura, asi kwete vanhu vose vari verbose, saka inobvumirwa kuti basa remuverengi rinotorwa naamai.
Chikomborero chevabereki muOrthodox tsika
Mune tsika dzeOrthodox, urongwa hwekuropafadza hunoitikawo mumatanho maviri - kutanga kugamuchirwa kubva kuvabereki vemwenga, uye zvino zvido zvekufara kubva kuvabereki vemukadzi.
- Kuti tigadzirire rhete maererano nemitemo yeOrthodox, inotanga kudiwa kuziva kuti munhu wose anoda chimiro chakadaro chekuropafadza. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti vanhu vakristu chete ndivo vanobatanidzwa mumutambo weOrthodox. Kana pane vasina kubhabhatidzwa, saka ivo vanofanira kubhabhatidzwa musati varoorana. Nokuda kwechikomborero icho chichave chakakosha kuwana zvidhori (nokuda komwenga - chiratidzo cheamai vaMwari, nokuda kwemuwani - chiratidzo chaKristu Muponesi). Mumhuri dzinoremekedza tsika dzeOrthodoxy zvifananidzo zvakadaro zvakagara nhaka. Muroori nemukwati vanofanira kukotama pajira, uye vabereki vomuchato vanotaura mazwi eropafadzo uye vanoita katatu muchinjikwa weiyo chiratidzo pamberi pevakaroorana. Mushure momuwani uye mwenga achitsvoda uye enda kuhofisi yekunyora uye tembere yemhemberero yemuchato.
- Mushure mekunyorwa kwechato, avo vakaroorana vakakomborerwa nevabereki vemukadzi. Pamberi pemusuo weimba yemabiko mu "rugwaro rwekugara zvakanaka" rinopararira.
Pamberi penzira yekutakura amai vemuroori vanomira nechingwa nemunyu mumaoko ake uye baba vomukati vane chiratidzo mumaoko ake. Vechidiki vakamira pamubati, uye baba vemukomba vanovakomborera nechishuvo uye vanotaura mazwi ekuparadzanisa. Zvokutaura, vabereki vanosarudza, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti mazwi okuti "kuropafadza, kuonga, kuda" kwaivapo mumutauro. Izvi zvinoitwa nevabereki vemukati vanoratidza kubvumirana kwavo nemuchato uye vanotaura tariro yekufara kwevana vaviri muupenyu hwavo hwemhuri.
Mifananidzo iyo vaduku vakakomborerwa yakaiswa patafura ye nguva yekupemberera. Mushure mezvifananidzo izvi endai kune vakaroorana uye muve mhuri dzemhuri. Nokudaro, izvi zvidhori zvinotora nhaka nevana.