"Yabed" - iri shoko iri rimwe nerimwe redu kamwe chete, asi rakanzwa mukero yake semucheche. Hazvishamisi kuti mumvuri weshoko iri hauna kunaka, asi ndeyechokwadi here? Izvo zvinofanira kuonekwa nokukurumidza kuti maererano nevana vasati vasvitsa makore matatu, hazvigone kushandiswa zvachose, nokuti mwana haana kunyunyuta, asi anoudza hama dzake kuti mumwe munhu akaita zvakaipa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti mwana anozvibata nenzira inowanzo, uye mumashoko ake pachavo anoratidza manzwiro ekuputsa, mumaonero ake, ehurumende. Vabereki nemakungu ndivo vane simba guru. Ndiye anotaura navo kuti adzorere kururamisira.
Ndicho chikonzero vabereki vasingafaniri kudha mwana nemutsara wokuti "Kuchenesa - zvakaipa!", Asi kumudzidzisa kubata nemamiriro ezvinhu asingafadzi uye asina kururama ari oga.
Mugwagwa Hapana
Murairo mukuru hausi kubvisa mwana nemashoko anoti "Chinzwisisa iwe pachako!". Chokutanga, nyatsoteerera pakutanga. Izvi zvingakubatsira kuti uongorore mamiriro acho ezvinhu: ndeupi munhu mukuru anobatsira here? Kana iwe uchinzwisisa kuti iye pachedu anokwanisa kugadzirisa dambudziko racho, zvino batsira mazano.
Dzimwe nguva mwana haagoni kutarisana nemunhu oga. Zvadaro mukuru anofanira kupindira. Asi kupindira hakurevi kuranga vatadzi! Kutanga, zvakakosha kuti titeerere kumwana uye wechipiri, uye tora mhedziso yekugadzirisa kusawirirana murugare uye nenzira dzose.
Cherechedza, kukurudzira mwana kutsausa-basa racho rinotyisa. Zvinokwanisika kuti iwe unofanirwa kupindira kanoverengeka, asi pakupedzisira vana pachavo vanozotanga kunzwisisa maitiro ekuzvibata mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro. Mushure mezvose, kumhanyira kuna amai vangu uye kumashure inguva, uye kushivirira kazhinji hakukwani kune vana.
Musha Sneakers
Kana mhuri ine vana vaviri kana kupfuura, saka vabereki vanoziva nezvemamiriro ezvinhu kana mwana ari kutaura kune mumwe. Uye hazvisi kuti iye ari makuhwa. Zvichida kuti zvishoma zvishoma zvinokwikwidza rudo rwevabereki, zvinoratidza pfungwa yegodo kana kusakanganiswa. Unonyatsoziva here kuti hapana mumwe wevana anoregererwa? Saka usapindira, asi nekuchengeteka kupa mutemo wemibvunzo yose kuvana. Dzidzisa hama nehanzvadzi kuti vataure.
Professional jade
Hazvisi chakavanzika chokuti vana vakakura manipulators. Vanogona kudzora mararamiro evaya vakavapoteredza nekugara vasingafungi. Nokubatsirwa naamai nababa, avo vanonyatsoteerera kunyunyuta kupi zvako, mwana anogona kuranga mumwe munhu. Uyu mufambiro unoratidza kuti mwana haanzwi kuchema kwekusarirwa kwevabereki, uye anotsiva kusavapo kwake. Nayabednichov uye kufara nenzira iyo vabereki vanoranga "mutadzi", mwana anonzwa ane simba rose. Izvi zvinofanirwa kumira pakarepo! Usambopindira mu "kuratidzwa" kwevana, uchinzwa chirevo chekuedza kushandisa mwana!
Neurotic abnormalities
Kana mwana achingoramba achin'un'una pamusoro pevamwe uye achizviona somunhu akabatwa, inogona kuva chiratidzo chekutsauka kwepfungwa. Pamwe, ane dambudziko rakakura risingapi zororo. Ndicho chikonzero nei achikwevera amai vake kunyange pazviitiko zviduku. Usanyara uye usazvidza mwana! Kana iwe uchizvimiririra kutora
Uye pakupedzisira, dzidzisai mwana kusiyanisa pakati pe "zvakanaka" uye "zvakaipa." Kana vaunodzidza navo vakagamuchira chimwe chinhu chinokuvadza (kuputira chimwe chinhu, kufara padenga reimba yakakwirira-refu), zvino kuzivisa munhu mukuru pamusoro peizvi hachisi chirango! Kunyanya, kana chinangwa chekutaura chokwadi kuvanhu vakuru, vomukirasi vanoziva. Uye kana mutadzi wemwana ari munhu mukuru, saka kubatana kwevabereki kunomirirwa!